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Lies My Pastor Told Me Pt. 2

I had a pretty good email reaction to the first part of the LMPTM blog posting so I wanted to go ahead with the second part, as I know that many will be able to relate to it.

Lie number 7:

“My wife is my equal partner. If she tell you to do something it is as if I said. You are not to question the authority of the First Lady!” Hello! Scripture please! Of course I believe that all Pastor’s wives are due their modicum of respect, but so does the average layperson in the church, the Deacons, the Ministers, the children, everyone. There is not a scripture in the bible that states that the First Lady (which is unscriptural in and of itself) has the same authority in the body of Christ as the Pastor does. Paul states in Acts:

For I know this, that after my departing shall grievous wolves enter in among you, not sparing the flock.

Also of your own selves shall men arise, speaking perverse things, to draw away disciples after them.

Therefore watch, and remember, that by the space of three years I ceased not to warn every one night and day with tears. – Acts 20:29-21

Paul is telling the elders from the church at Ephesus about being accountable to each other, not to their wives! Considering that this Pastor vilified other ministries and forbid us to associate with them, we were basically stranded on a spiritual island with he and his First Lady as the authoritarians and he was accountable to NONE of his brethren.  Read the rest of this entry »

 
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Posted by on June 27, 2011 in Spiritual Abuse

 

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People are hungry…will you feed them?

Jesus then cometh, and taketh bread, and giveth them, and fish likewise.

This is now the third time that Jesus shewed himself to his disciples, after that he was risen from the dead.

So when they had dined, Jesus saith to Simon Peter, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me more than these? He saith unto him, Yea, Lord; thou knowest that I love thee. He saith unto him, Feed my lambs.

He saith to him again the second time, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me? He saith unto him, Yea, Lord; thou knowest that I love thee. He saith unto him, Feed my sheep.

He saith unto him the third time, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me? Peter was grieved because he said unto him the third time, Lovest thou me? And he said unto him, Lord, thou knowest all things; thou knowest that I love thee. Jesus saith unto him, Feed my sheep. – John 21:13-17 (KJV).

I am becoming convinced that part of my new ministry is to the women at my salon lol. They have got questions and God has the answers. In the passage of scripture quoted above Jesus is speaking to Simon Peter and it seems sort of redundant that He keeps asking Peter the same question over and over; however,  this conversation takes place after His resurrection. We know that before Jesus was crucified that He informed the same Peter that before the cock crowed that Peter would deny Him three times, and just as Jesus stated, Peter did. This time when speaking to Peter, Jesus asks him “do you love me?” and Peter answers in the affirmative three times. The first time, please note that Jesus asks about lambs. What are lambs? They are baby sheep; lambs refer to weak, new, young or immature Christians. These Christians need to be led or taught God’s Word and laws. They need what is commonly referred to as the “milk of the Word”, we teach lambs of God how to lived saved and holy, about reading the Word and fasting and praying because anything stronger than that they may not be able to handle. Consider a newborn baby, do we give them steak, chicken and mashed potatoes? No, we feed them breast milk or formula until their digestive systems are able to maintain heavier and more solid food! Babes in Christ are no different.

After Jesus instructs Peter to feed His lambs, he asks him again if he loves him and again Peter answers in the affirmative, then Jesus tells him to feed His sheep. Jesus’ sheep are more mature Christians and they may not need fed with the Word, but they may need some guidance, encouragement, discipline and restoration among other things. It is important that we remember what Jesus told Peter. So many Christians, both babes in Christ and mature ones are falling away because of false doctrines, false teachers and lack of the Word. Every time I go to my salon someone has a question for me regarding God, salvation, Christianity or something else and it makes me wonder, where are the called and the chosen? Why are God’s people perishing? Is there anyone left? Why are God’s lambs and sheep malnourished and dying?

I am OVERJOYED that God has placed me in the position to minister the truth of His word to people. I meet opposition every time, but the trying of my faith worketh patience and I am not discouraged. So many people are lost yet have the desire to know God, but they are either afraid or misinformed. Jesus asked if we love Him. If we love Him we would keep His commandments. He told us to go into all the World and preach the Gospel, so what is the Gospel? It is the birth, death, resurrection and saving power of Jesus Christ! He sat at the Last Supper and He fed His sheep, and now it is our turn. People are hungering and thirsting after righteousness and it is our jobs as followers of Jesus to feed them; this is a part of our worship of God and our reasonable service. Peter never forgot the lesson or instruction from Jesus:

Feed the flock of God which is among you, taking the oversight thereof, not by constraint, but willingly; not for filthy lucre, but of a ready mind;

Neither as being lords over God’s heritage, but being examples to the flock. – 1 Peter 5:2-3.

I go back to the salon on Thursday. I hope they’re hungry! ;)

A Pastor’s Wife

 
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Posted by on June 25, 2011 in Spiritual Walk

 

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“Stand fast in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made you free…

…and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage (Gal. 5:1)”.

Posted with thanks to FBCjaxwatchdog! :)

 
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Posted by on June 21, 2011 in Uncategorized

 

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Take no thought…

We have this long road that is about 4.5 miles long which leads to our subdivision and on this road there is nothing except trees, dirt and blue skies (usually). When I was riding home early one morning last week I noticed what looked like nasty vultures feeding on some dead animal off to the side of the road and my first thought was “UGH!!!”, but my second was…”Wow, how amazing!” Our carnal minds look at something like that and think that the buzzard or vulture is disgusting for feeding off of another dead animal, but if you look again you will see scripture being fulfilled. Because I believe that we see or take in every thing for a reason, I thought about this:

Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment?

Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are ye not much better than they? – Matthew 6:25-26

Many of us worry so much we probably give God a headache if it’s possible lol. “Ohh lawd, I only gots FOE MOE dollars to last me through the week, what iz IM gonna do???” Y’all know we get good and KUNTRY ignant when we perceive that we’re suffering.  Or maybe that’s just me (wink wink). I wonder if the birds worry? I wonder if they sit in their nests and worry the mama bird or the father bird or if they start petty bird fights because they’re so stressed over not having bread. I remember when we lived up north, and I have never been a nature person mind you, I would ask my husband if we could go and buy a loaf of bread, go to the lake and feed the birds! Wow, look at God! He used old Doubting Thomas and Thomasina to go out and feed the “fowls of the air”. How funny! What is funnier is that we usually did that when we were feeling stressed about our own personal situation. I just love God’s irony. Finally let me leave you with some of the rest of Matthew 6: 30-34

Wherefore, if God so clothe the grass of the field, which to day is, and to morrow is cast into the oven, shall he not much more clothe you, O ye of little faith?

Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed?

(For after all these things do the Gentiles seek:) for your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things.

But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof.

And David said in Psalms 37:25,

I have been young, and now am old; yet have I not seen the righteous forsaken, nor his seed begging bread.

Now if you consider yourself His seed and/or righteous…stop worrying about tomorrow and be about the Father’s business of soul winning for Christ today! Have a blessed week,

A Pastor’s Wife

 
 

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Spiritual Rape: An Acceptable Church Practice?

I was at the salon one day and I was giving my testimony to one of the ladies who frequent the shop with me every month. Her statement of faith was that she had no faith in the church at all because of what was done to her now deceased mother. I will get back to that later. In the middle of giving my personal testimony I told this woman that my husband and I had been spiritually raped at our former ministry, and this caused her to physically recoil. I did not stop there, but finished giving the testimony as God instructed, and then she told me her mother’s. Today I was thinking back on that conversation and I wondered why she recoiled the way that she did; that prompted me with the desire to know just how rape is defined by Dictonary.com (2011):

As a noun;

1.the unlawful compelling of a woman through physical force or duress to have sexual intercourse.

2.any act of sexual intercourse that is forced upon a person.

3.statutory rape.

4.an act of plunder, violent seizure, or abuse; despoliation; violation: the rape of the countryside.

5.Archaic . the act of seizing and carrying off by force.

As a verb;

6.to force to have sexual intercourse.

7.to plunder (a place); despoil.

8.to seize, take, or carry off by force. Read the rest of this entry »

 
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Posted by on June 17, 2011 in Spiritual Abuse

 

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Why are we silent and the devil so loud?

I recently watched a documentary on the evil behind rock music and I was astonished by what I discovered. Not being a consumer of rock, heavy metal, death metal, etc. just learning what some of these people do to attain the small amount of fame and fortune astounded me. Of course I know that Satan is the prince of the air(waves), and I know that he influences a lot of the music that we hear, but I was shocked that during this documentary that I literally had to plead the blood of Jesus over myself whilst listening to some of the lyrics! The artists featured like Jim Morrison, Jimi Hendrix, Joni Mitchell, Ozzy Osbourne, Prince, and the Beatles have all sold their souls to the devil for their piece of fame, but it is the lyrics to some of their songs that really tell the story. I will give one example, but do not feel the need to taint my blog with excessive content by these devils. Here is a sample of Jim Morrison/The Door`s “When the musics over”:

Cancel my subscription to the Resurrection
Send my credentials to the House of Detention
I got some friends inside

For the music is your special friend
Dance on fire as it intends
Music is your only friend
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